There are no accidents as our lives as purposeful created! It tires me to see and hear a lot of women who describe their goal as just to get married,have kids and run a business! While that is not a so bad plan, its has become the general plan and as such most women live as ordinary women, ordinary wives and ordinary mothers!
That is also why they are so readily replaceable by other women! Cuz before a man replaces his wife, in most cases, he has weighed his pros and cons! What value are you adding as a woman, as a wife and as a mother! For some women as sad as this may sound, your house helps add more value to your husband, your children and your home more than you do!
You sleep, eat, wake up and that's it!
Ask yourself today, can your husband genuinely look at his life , his home and the marriage and say confidently that all he has would not be the same without you being in the equation?
There are business moguls who would tell you there is no success outside their wives. They have stay @ home wives who read business and self development books, they equip themselves such that when they speak, they unleash wisdom!
I know of a woman who's love for books has turned her husband to a voracious reader and a body of intelligence today! He gives her that credit till date! There is a woman who single handedly built a library for her husband. She made it a point of duty to buy him books and when he gets so busy, she reads and summaries it for him.
There's another woman who buys a pair of clothing for her husband monthly (from her money) and according to the man 85% of his clothing were bought by her!
You don't have to be the same like any of the women mentioned above here, but its high time women stepped up their game! Position your self to a level of irreplaceability! Let your husbands see you as their "favorite hellos and hardest goodbyes"
Stop being a pain in his ass, a thorn in his flesh or fish bone in his throat that he can neither swallow or regurgitate. Some women have brought nothing but pain and issues to their husband! & as such when he finds something better he grabs it and never let's go! Don't fool yourself, one of the keys to keeping your husband, home and marriage is being an irreplaceable woman of value! Nobody throws away a good thing or a valuable thing. So shake your self up and stop being MATTER(something that has weight and Occupies space)
Eyitemi Adebowale (Home Builders)
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